Oh, I feel for this reader. One time my boyfriend thought he had hung up the phone but hadn't and that's how I found out he had another girlfriend he was living with who thought I was some crazed stalker he was trying to get rid of. The worst. Well, not the worst, but pretty bad.

I'm not sure how this dude thought she wouldn't see his Facebook
pictures, or maybe he didn't care. Anyway, here is what I told this
xoJane texter who reached me yesterday at the office when I was so
happy to postpone what I was supposed to be working on (budgets) to answer her question. I'm assuming it is a her, 'cause of the reference to Girl Code, but either way, here is my advice:
What do you think, and have you had any yucky experiences with
discovering you were being cheated on? Do you disagree with me about the Girl Code rules here? Tell me and this week's texterin the comments. I love you. And I will never cheat on you, whatever that means in this context. Text me any and all issues at any time of night or day at 917-239-2891.