I've been trying to do too many things this week — more meetings than usual, making myself finally write a speech I'm giving next week, making Charlotte dinner/Nutella sandwiches — and generally moving too quickly through things.
So it is like a nice little codependent-sponsored break when I get your questions and actually take a moment to focus solely on what's going on with you and not be so scattered with my own crap.
For the following question, however, I don't have the long-term monogamy credentials to give this reader all the advice she deserves. If you do, I'd love for you to help her out in the comments. Thanks in advance.

If you're feeling very Zen and have no answers, but only questions, text them to me at 917-239-2891. My phone is fully charged, which is rare, so let's all take advantage!